Retirement: Everyday Is Saturday–Or Is It?

My husband started it! Early in our retirement, he threw down the gauntlet and wanted us to preserve defined weekends. I pouted…just a little bit…okay, a lot! For years I had been totally sold on the concept that during retirement every day would be Saturday (or Sunday). To me, it was now like saying there should be no Santa or no Tooth Fairy! Why wouldn’t we want every day to be Saturday?

During the first two months of our retirement, we were fully immersed in intense house renovations (insane, I know – but it was cathartic and served as a great transition from work). At Richard’s lead, we did the renovations on Monday to Friday and took the weekends ‘off’.

With the renovations behind us, we have continued that schedule. As best as we can, we now try to make the weekends special and confine more mundane tasks and our ‘to do lists’ to the weekdays. In this way, we not only have defined weekends, we also have a weekly escape from household chores and other drudgery.

My husband just may have been on to something. In a study on ‘the weekend effect’, led by Richard Ryan at The University of Rochester, (January 2010) researchers tracked the mental moods and physical symptoms of working adults during both weekdays and weekends. Not surprisingly, participants indicated being happier during the weekend with less physical complaints.  “Weekends were associated with elevated feelings of freedom and closeness — participants said they were more often involved in activities of their own choosing and spending time with close friends and family members. People also felt more competent during the weekend than they did at work” (source). Even those who worked on weekends reported feeling happier on Saturday and Sunday. For this latter group, researchers suggested that it was probably because “cool events tend to happen on the weekend.” They also proposed that there was a likely social contagion effect, i.e. when other people are happy around you, you become happier yourself (source).

Live Science (February 2008) reported on another interesting study that found that weekdays often bring heavier rain than weekends. “Summertime storms in the southeastern United States shed more rainfall midweek than on weekends….The cause could be the air pollution created by the daily grind—traffic and business operations….The clearest day of the week was Saturday, with nearly twice the rainfall on the wettest day, Tuesday afternoon (source).

Could the ‘weekend effect’ also apply to retirees? Ryan’s study did not look at non-working adults, or at adults over the age of 62. However, it makes sense that special Saturday/Sunday events, weekend visits with working friends/family members, social-contagion, less rain, as well as old habits dying hard, could have a positive impact on a retiree’s weekend.

I began this post at the beginning of May (when weekend farmers’ markets/special events were beginning to step up in our area), and I once again experienced the “twin blog phenomenon”. To get more details for my post, I increased my on-line search for “retirement-everyday-weekend” and came across a blog post, Every day is Weekend In Early Retirement? by Mr.Firestation. That post was written just one day before my search. Seriously, how does this happen? I had never previously come across this blog, or this blogger. Regardless, Mr. Firestation and I had both been working on the same blog topic at the same time (and I discovered that many bloggers that I follow, follow his blog). I put my draft away for a while and wrote on other matters. Then, after a particularly fun and rejuvenating long weekend, I pulled out this draft once again.

It is true. Even in retirement weekends are significant. They cause an increase in special events, outdoor community activities, and a mixture of age groups out and about (or, in respect for our recent Canada Day, “oot and aboot”).  Used wisely, weekends can also provide a break from tasks and chores (which sadly do not disappear in retirement).

In response to the question “is every day the weekend in retirement”? Mr. Firestation sat firmly on the fence and concluded both “yes and no.” His reasoning was that for most retirees, weekdays are more relaxed than when they were working. Conversely, he also argued that weekends are even more special as retirees can avoid scheduling chores during that time, giving them even more time to take part in special events with friends and family. (source)

I totally agree with Mr. Firestation’s conclusion, and in the process, I have found a great new blog to follow.

Once again the weekend is near…bring it on!

Feature Photo: Cedar Sunday Market, Vancouver Island, BC.

13 Replies to “Retirement: Everyday Is Saturday–Or Is It?”

  1. Glad to meet you, Donna! What a coincidence that we were both reflecting on the value of weekends. I’ve been retired three months now and am still enjoying the specialness of our weekends. I love the special events that are scheduled and that almost everyone is around and not working.

    1. Thanks so much for reading, and for commenting. I am glad to meet you too. You have a great blog. I will be following regularly.
      Donna

  2. It is nice to be able to do what you want when you want. In that regard every day could be like Sat. Our weekend is defined by church or otherwise, we would loose what day it was. We do sort of try to stay away from normal chores on weekends. The bottom line, enjoy life, as it is too short at times. Happy retirement

  3. Your post made me smile. We are recently – ugh – “retired”. (I think I may be in denial on this, tho). Both of us are happily working part time. I work remotely so I can choose when I work. Guess what? I still choose to work during the week! There seems to be some kind of relaxed flow that revolves around a weekend. Maybe it’s old habits? I love my Saturdays and Sundays to just hang out and slow down. I could do this on Wednesday and Thursday when the rest of the world is at work, but there’s something special about a weekend. Still. Thanks for your post!

    1. Thanks, Deanna – I appreciate your comments. I agree that there is often a ‘relaxed flow’ that revolves around a weekend. I LOVE that!

  4. Great post, Donna. I have several retired friends who are firm believers in everyday being Saturday now. Like your husband, I on the other hand, still keep the weekends separate in terms of our activities.

    The irony in my own home is that my wife generally has no idea what day it is, yet she still works full time (i.e. from home!). I am the one who is retired and am completely aware of the days.

    1. Thanks, Marty – Since I’ve retired, I have had a hard time knowing what day/date it is. Like you, Richard has been much more aware of this. Pure coincidence or gender trait?

  5. An interesting point of view. We still like the weekends, when more friends are around and there are usually more things going on. My friends and I extend the weekends thru Monday, though, because that’s when we play golf (since it’s cheaper and less crowded.)

  6. Being chronic home renovators ourselves (fortunately the big projects are behind us), I know how important it is to give ourselves a break now and then. We don’t reserve Saturday and Sunday for rest as a habit (sometimes, at least where we live, Saturday and Sunday bring the crowds so weekdays are better for getting out and about), but it’s important not to retire just to fill up your days with unpaid work. I guess everyone needs to find a retirement rhythm that works for them… and be open to changing it as time and circumstances evolve.

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